Sunday, August 6, 2017

WHAT HAPPENS AFTER DEATH?

We don't carry anything to our next birth except our spiritual values; neither can we carry assets like house, car, properties, country, nationality nor our children, parents, wife, relatives and friends. Even we don't carry our beliefs and faiths. As I am born in a Hindu family I have develop beliefs and faiths in Hinduism and if I would have born in an Islam family or any other I would have developed beliefs and faiths in rites and rituals of that community. There is every possibility that my next birth can be in different community than what I have been born in this life. If I am accumulating wealth for my children and if I have not imparted right values, there is every possibility that my children will use the wealth for wrong deeds. In short, we don't carry anything when we die except our deed
We are all spiritual beings in physical form. Our core values and time are our spiritual asset. Happiness is state of mind. On the basis of thoughts our body reacts. Our body is the medium of expression. Happiness is within us but we keep looking outside for happiness i.e., outside our body. Our body and mind are two different entities, but most of us are unaware of that and we start to identify ourselves with our conditioned mind. We are living an unconscious life. I am not going to give you anything new in this training program. I will make you aware of what you've got within yourself. Fire of knowledge i.e. awareness can take away your suffering. Anyone or everyone can be happy and live in peace, if he or she is living in a conscious state of living at present. But most of us are living in an unconscious state of living identified with our past conditioned mind i.e. ego.

HOW TO IMPROVE IN LIFE AND ACHIVE ULTIMATE SUCCESS?

If I am truly committed to improve in my life, then I must focus on my core values. Core values are the roots and others like career, finance, relationship; emotion and health are the fruits.
If I don't keep my commitment, then I will lose my relationship with self and others. Some relations are important to me, if I lose those relations I will be emotionally down. It's going to have impact on my health. If I am not healthy physically and mentally, I will not be able to perform well at work. In turn it's going to affect my income and finance.
Core Values are like the roots of a tree and foundation of a building. The stronger and deeper are the roots of the tree, higher the tree can grow with stability. The tree can face any kind of challenges like storm, flood & Cyclone. It will not be uprooted. The stronger the foundation of your building more storeys you can add on the top, otherwise the building will collapse.
Leadership is all about maintaining core values such as commitment,  Responsibility, trustworthy, punctuality, forgiveness and gratitude.

In the corporate world it is as if the language is invented to deceive someone. I can cheat the whole world but not self. The body reacts to my inner voice, conscience only. We say something outside but inner voice speaks something different.
Whenever we are working against our emotion or inner conscience to gain something in physical level, we start forming knots in our body. But we are not able to recognise as our mind is diverted outward. As our mind is diverted outward, we have lost the ability to sense the reaction happening within us each and every moment. We only recognise it when it comes out in the form of disease or pain.

Thoughts are two way swords:

Whenever I think bad of others, it does bad to me also.
To be an effective communicator I must change my thoughts. We communicate and act on the basis of our thoughts and knowledge on the subject. It's not what I communicate but how I communicate plays the major role in every relationship.

Though the fault is in every one of us, but no one likes to be blamed and commanded by others including me. If I can communicate without blaming others, I can achieve better results in both personal life and professional life.
Once my thoughts, actions and words I use in my communication with self and others are aligned I become an effective communicator and my productivity multiplies.
I found in every incident or situation several thoughts are generated in my mind. All these thoughts can be categorised into 3 categories. They are
1. Blaming (thoughts) others directly or indirectly and the word used is you,
2nd category: Justify (thoughts) my failure and 3 category
3rd Category: Taking Responsibility(thoughts) of my every actions and result
On the basis of THOUGHTS we can categorize ourselves into three categories.
They are Victims, Aggressors and Creators.

Saturday, August 5, 2017

Student's Blueprint for Success extract

Ever since my first book: ‘9 Secrets, the Ultimate Success Strategies’ was released, most of the readers of the book have asked me to make a student edition. This book is the result of encouragement and inspiration from the readers of my first book. They felt this kind of book will help the current generation to shape up their career. Whatever I have mentioned in this book is nothing new. As we feed our body, we need to feed our mind to remind us the task to be carried on- to be a successful student. It’s not what is presented in this book, but how it is presented that’s very important. Some of the topics need deeper understanding. Please go through those topics twice for more clarity. Every student wants to become someone successful but how many become what they wanted to become? Later some students will not like themselves just before the examination; or just before the examination results to be declared; and after passing out of their college due to non-selection for a job. Even some of the students are committing suicide due to their internal communication, “I hate myself ” or “I feel like committing suicide”.
Let’s analyze- who hates whom or who is killing whom? I hate myself; that means ‘I’ and ‘myself’ are two different entities. ‘I’ is what you wanted to become and ‘myself’ is what you are right now. Let’s understand ‘body’ and ‘mind’ are two different entities. It’s the mind which controls the body. You have to act on your mind. You have to visualise in your mind what are the end results you want to achieve as a student.


Friday, August 4, 2017

Extract from 9 Secrets, the Ultimate Success Strategies.

Most of us feel frustrated and angry, as we are not able to reach in time. It’s the truth that you cannot be in time to your office. Suppose you are to make a presentation when you reach your office. Will you be able to make a good presentation? You will be carrying all the anger & frustration with you. It’s going to affect your presentation. Instead of being reactive you can be observant. That’s under your control. You can observe what’s happening in you and around you at the traffic signal. You can call your office to let them know that you will be late. You can observe the situation and other people around you, how they are reacting to the situation. We go to watch movies like ‘Traffic Signal’* by paying for the ticket; now you are watching a live movie without a ticket. Next time when you get stuck in a traffic signal if you can practise what is mentioned above, you have already got more than enough value of this book. “Can you be more observant than reactive from today?” (*“Traffic Signal” is a Bollywood Hindi movie directed by Madhur Bhandarkar)

Thursday, August 3, 2017

I Realization Training Program:

We are all spiritual beings in physical form. Our THOUGHTS and TIME are our spiritual asset. Happiness is state of mind. On the basis of thoughts our body reacts. Our body is the medium of expression. Happiness is within us but we keep looking outside for happiness i.e., outside our body. Our body and mind are two different entities, but most of us are unaware of that and we start to identify ourselves with our conditioned mind. We are living an unconscious life. I am not going to give you anything new in this training program. I will make you aware of what you've got within yourself. Fire of knowledge i.e. awareness can take away your suffering.