😘Was it a love or an addiction?
Love is a positive emotion. It makes you feel intensely alive. Your living becomes meaningful because someone wants you and makes you feel special. When you are together you feel complete.
Once there was a clash of ego; anger, resentment and revenge emotions took over your love. Now there is a strong urge to argue, criticize, blame and attack each other.
You were on a high when it was available. If there is a thought that he or she may no longer be with you, fear of loss activates your jealousy, passiveness and emotional blackmailing memories. And if he or she truly lives you, you become intensely hostile or you are in dreadful grief.
In an instant love turns into savage attack or dreadful grief.
Was it a love in first place or addictive clinging?
True love has no opposite. Because it arises from consciousness not mind. True love is a continuous conscious state of being.
Are you ready to reclaim your love?