The most empowering position is to be a CREATOR. To say “I am Responsible for my Life and I will choose how I respond to any situation, so that it does not control me”.
The most powerful people are Creators – they acknowledge the past and choose their Future. Only human beings can change their destiny by changing their thoughts and attitude. We create our own reality.
I am the result of my own thoughts and actions I take in every situation & circumstances.
If I can improve the quality of my thinking, I will improve the quality of my life. Mind generates thought and there is compulsive thinking; and most of the thoughts are negative unless I make conscious effort to generate positive thoughts.
Psychologists estimate that we talk to ourselves more than 50,000 times a day, compulsive thinking. These self talks or compulsive thinking directly influences our self-image and determines our behaviour and attitude. Our mind is a superb instrument or you can say super computer if we know how to use it for right action. Unless I make conscious effort to generate positive thought, it will generate negative or destructive thought.
The most rapid and positive changes in our personality and our life come from the way we change our thinking about our possibilities and ourselves. Ultimately I came to the conclusion:
positive ATTITUDE and positive Result
We all have played all the above roles and now also we are playing. Sometime I played the role
of a victim by blaming someone for whatever happened to me or sometime I justified my
failure. And I have taken responsibility also. What I am today is result of the responsibility I
have taken in my life.
Now let me ask you a question. Your father has taken a loan of Rs.5 lakhs from the bank but he
has paid only Rs.1.50 lakhs before his accidental death. Will you pay the rest of the money if
bank asks you to pay? Touch your heart and tell the truth.
Most of us will say “Why should I pay, go and ask my father? I was never informed” and so and
so…
Let's take another situation. There is a land of worth Rs.15 lakhs which your father
purchased and which is under his name. You came to know about it after his death. Will you
go and claim the land or let it go?
Most of us will go and claim the land. Think about it, how we are?
We are willing to enjoy our ancestral property but not willing to take responsibility for their
mistake.
Everything is a consequence of my thoughts. All states of happiness or misery are the result
of my own thoughts. Thought determines destiny, I create my own character and
circumstances by the manner of my own thinking. A happier tomorrow is built only
when I live a committed life today.
Almost all illnesses are caused by thoughts and most doctors treat the symptom not the
cause. If you want to be cured fully you must treat your body, mind and soul.
From today you have to change your thoughts to 'What can I do out of this situation,
circumstances or of this person to get the desired result'?
Please make a list of 'What I cannot do & What can I do out of this situation'
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I realize that I am result of my THOUGHTS, ACTIONS and WORDS I use in communication with self and others. TIME & your THOUGHTS are your main asset to improve your life. Are you using TIME & your THOUGHTS for your better improvement or degrading yourself? Please ask this question to self as many times as possible. Have a productive day!
The most powerful people are Creators – they acknowledge the past and choose their Future. Only human beings can change their destiny by changing their thoughts and attitude. We create our own reality.
I am the result of my own thoughts and actions I take in every situation & circumstances.
If I can improve the quality of my thinking, I will improve the quality of my life. Mind generates thought and there is compulsive thinking; and most of the thoughts are negative unless I make conscious effort to generate positive thoughts.
Psychologists estimate that we talk to ourselves more than 50,000 times a day, compulsive thinking. These self talks or compulsive thinking directly influences our self-image and determines our behaviour and attitude. Our mind is a superb instrument or you can say super computer if we know how to use it for right action. Unless I make conscious effort to generate positive thought, it will generate negative or destructive thought.
The most rapid and positive changes in our personality and our life come from the way we change our thinking about our possibilities and ourselves. Ultimately I came to the conclusion:
No one can destroy me but my own thoughts destroy me
Thought x Knowledge x Action =Result
If I have positive thought of taking responsibility, I will take positive actions. It leads topositive ATTITUDE and positive Result
We all have played all the above roles and now also we are playing. Sometime I played the role
of a victim by blaming someone for whatever happened to me or sometime I justified my
failure. And I have taken responsibility also. What I am today is result of the responsibility I
have taken in my life.
Now let me ask you a question. Your father has taken a loan of Rs.5 lakhs from the bank but he
has paid only Rs.1.50 lakhs before his accidental death. Will you pay the rest of the money if
bank asks you to pay? Touch your heart and tell the truth.
Most of us will say “Why should I pay, go and ask my father? I was never informed” and so and
so…
Let's take another situation. There is a land of worth Rs.15 lakhs which your father
purchased and which is under his name. You came to know about it after his death. Will you
go and claim the land or let it go?
Most of us will go and claim the land. Think about it, how we are?
We are willing to enjoy our ancestral property but not willing to take responsibility for their
mistake.
Everything is a consequence of my thoughts. All states of happiness or misery are the result
of my own thoughts. Thought determines destiny, I create my own character and
circumstances by the manner of my own thinking. A happier tomorrow is built only
when I live a committed life today.
Almost all illnesses are caused by thoughts and most doctors treat the symptom not the
cause. If you want to be cured fully you must treat your body, mind and soul.
From today you have to change your thoughts to 'What can I do out of this situation,
circumstances or of this person to get the desired result'?
Please make a list of 'What I cannot do & What can I do out of this situation'
I realize that I am result of my THOUGHTS, ACTIONS and WORDS I use in communication with self and others. TIME & your THOUGHTS are your main asset to improve your life. Are you using TIME & your THOUGHTS for your better improvement or degrading yourself? Please ask this question to self as many times as possible. Have a productive day!
Very nice! Life coaching is very important.
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