😘Was it a love or an addiction?

 😘Was it a love or an addiction? 

Love is a positive emotion. It makes you feel intensely alive. Your living becomes meaningful because someone wants you and makes you feel special. When you are together you feel complete.

 Once there was a clash of ego; anger, resentment and revenge emotions took over your love. Now there is a strong urge to argue, criticize, blame and attack each other. 

You were on a high when it was available. If there is a thought that he or she may no longer be with you, fear of loss activates your jealousy, passiveness and emotional blackmailing memories. And if he or she truly lives you, you become intensely hostile or you are in dreadful grief.

In an instant love turns into savage attack or dreadful grief.

Was it a love in first place or addictive clinging?

True love has no opposite. Because it arises from consciousness not mind. True love is a continuous conscious state of being.

Are you ready to reclaim your love?

Are you successful? Or Are you trying to become successful?

What is success? Success is a progressive realization of an worthy ideal.

Therefore, if you are working towards your worthy ideals, you are successful.

You may be trying to become a lawyer.

You may be trying to become an engineer?

You may be trying to become a doctor or you may be trying to become an entrepreneur.

In that aspect unless you have completed the course in your medicine, you are not a doctor yet. You are trying to become doctor. Unless you complete the course, you are not recognized as doctor.

Therefore, it’s essential that you complete the program or course whatever you’ve taken to become that person.

And if you are investing most of your precious time in your chosen field facing all the challenges, then you are successful.

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Significance of Maha Kumbh and benefits:

 

Maha kumbh is the temporary temple with most powerful aura to clear all the negative energies from the body. When someone takes a deep into the river Maa Ganga most of the negative energy gets evaporated and feels very light. Negative energies are the memories (Smriti) of ancestors and own negative memories.  This negative energy are the burdens that most people are carrying and they can get rid of their negative energies by visiting Mahakumbh in Prayagraj.

It happens once in 12 years and this year 2025 is more significance due to the planetary positions which happens once in 144 years.

The positive aura is created due to the planetary position and coming together of the sages with positive aura due to their years of meditation in secluded places and at the same time the Hawans that are being performed at the Maha Kumbh sites.

This is the best opportunity for the people who are suffering from psychological problems, autoimmune disease and ancestral disease can cure themselves by spending 30 days of prayers with the positive aura around and dips in the river Ganga.

We don't carry anything to our next birth except our spiritual values or deeds

 

Now, we know technology development with the right wisdom is a must to end human suffering. Otherwise, the same technology is being used for biological warfare like COVID-19 or nuclear warfare for human destruction. World leaders and scientists thought; that once the technology is fully developed, we will be able to eradicate misery and suffering of humanity.

World leaders need to realise that this is not their last birth or last journey on this earth. We have 3 entities, body, mind and soul. Physical body is like our hardware, mind is our software and, soul is consciousness or energy. We have 7 layers of body.  Only physical body can be seen by ordinary eyes and to see remaining 6 bodies like Etheric body and Astral body, we need special vision. Astral body is like cloud computing or sub-conscious mind and soul is like SIM card in a mobile. If a mobile is fully discharged and you insert the same SIM into another mobile, all the data is retrieved into that mobile. Therefore, you can see many cases of even a five years old child are diagnosed with brain cancer or tumour in the brain. Most of the illnesses are manifested in the astral body due to negative memories or bad deeds before appearing in the physical body.

We don't carry anything to our next birth except our spiritual values or deeds; neither can we carry assets like house, car, properties, country, nationality nor our children, parents, wife, relatives and friends. Even we don't carry our beliefs and faiths. As I am born in a Hindu family, I have developed beliefs and faiths in Hinduism and if I would have born in an Islam family or any other, I would have developed beliefs and faiths in rites and rituals of that community. There is every possibility that my next birth can be in different community than what I have been born in this life. If I am accumulating wealth for my children and if I have not imparted right values, there is every possibility that my children will use the wealth for wrong deeds. In short, we don't carry anything when we die except our deed. Therefore, every world leader must and can decide their next life journey with right deeds in this life. As a parent our main responsibility is to impart right values and education to our children to make this world a peaceful place to live.

To escape the cycle of reincarnation, you must release your soul as an enlightened person with full awareness during death. Only awareness can take away your sufferings. Awareness only transformed robber Ratnakar to sage Valmiki.  

Only awareness can take away our suffering. You will get clarity, when you go through Dr. Brian Weiss books ‘Same soul, many bodies’ or ‘Many Lives, Many Masters’

Selling is all about converting big 'NO' to 'YES'.

 'NO' is the standard response in every proposal as our prospect does not know to what he/she is saying 'no'. Therefore the first step is to convert our prospect from 'NO' to 'KNOW'. To convert 'no' to 'know' we should take the initiative to know him by asking questions. The most important aspect in selling is the art of asking questions and listening patiently to understand the client; so that you can provide the right solution to the client. Then ask for business and close the sale.

It's not what happened to me, but what I do about it

 Bad thing happens in our life. But it's not what happened to me, what I do about it determines the outcome. If a snake bites you, do you run after the snake or you go to the hospital to cure yourself?

Same way you will find lots of snakes around you in your day to day life, but how do you protect yourself is up to you. There are laws to protect our physical assets, but there is no law to protect your intellect. It's your responsibility to protect your thoughts. There are snakes (people) around you to poison your mind and provoke you.
It is not what others do but our own mistakes that hurt us the most; it is our response to those provocations. What people will say or do is under their control. But how I will react is under my control. I can have control on my thoughts, and thoughts are generated in my mind. I can achieve mastery over my mind through conscious and continuous practise; otherwise compulsive thinking will take me over. By controlling my thoughts, I can determine my destiny. My mind & consciences is my spiritual asset. I need to protect and use it with outmost care. God has given me the will power to protect it from evil purpose. Mind control is the result of self-discipline and habits. I either control my mind or it controls you. There is no half-way compromise. The most practical of all methods for controlling my mind is the habit of keeping it busy with a definite purpose, backed by present actions based on my definite future plan and keep my mind clean through forgiveness exercise, whenever required.

Now the question is, how to practice forgiveness exercise?

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You can vaccinate yourself with right thought, right food and right breathing exercise

You can vaccinate yourself with right thought, right food and right breathing exercise. Our body produces immune cell to kill harmful viruses.

When we are in anger or in anxiety, we take shallow breathing and production of immune cells are reduced significantly. Studies showed that one minute of anger weaken our immune system for 5 hours. Anger, fear and revenge are negative emotions. It leads to anxiety, worry, stress, depression and suicidal thoughts. We harm ourselves.

If you can replace anger with emotional listening to self and other, which is called love; fear with gratitude of being happy what you have got and revenge thought with forgiveness, you become emotionally happy and makes you to live in the present. You become an emotional asset than emotional liability as your emotional bank balance is increased. You will be able to safeguard yourself against any harmful viruses. Vaccine taken from outside has got limited time period effect on you. Once you master the art of generating more immune cells to kill harmful viruses through right thought, right food and right breathing exercise, you can vaccinate yourself all the time.

This is Life Coach Dipankar. Founder of Life Management Academy would like to invite for a Life Coaching Session for developing Emotional Intelligence to overcome psychological problems such as Anger, Anxiety and stress; and improve concentration power to succeed in life. The other benefits of the program are developing self-confidence and Time Management. 

Time Management is Stress Management: The most important asset in anyone’s life is Time and the most important activity is right thinking. Stress is the result of wrong thoughts, actions and words in your communication with self and others.  

This is Life Coach Dipankar. Founder of Life Management Academy would like to invite for a Life Coaching Session for developing Emotional Intelligence to overcome psychological problems such as Anger, Anxiety and stress; and improve concentration power to succeed in life. The other benefits of the program are developing self-confidence and Time Management. 

Time Management is Stress Management: The most important asset in anyone’s life is Time and the most important activity is right thinking. Stress is the result of wrong thoughts, actions and words in your communication with self and others.  

Our school and colleges give importance to gaining knowledge to get more marks. To convert our knowledge to earnings, we should we emotionally sound and physically healthy.

As parents our duty is to impart right values and right education to our children so that they can succeed in this competitive world.

Emotional Intelligence in Leadership

Thoughts X Knowledge X Action= Result

 I am result of my Thoughts, Knowledge and the emotion I put into my action.

Thoughts X Knowledge X Action= Result

If you get million without developing skills and becoming million worth, your happiness will be temporary and it will bring misery in the long run. You become a doctor by developing skills and knowledge of a doctor. Otherwise you can get a doctor certificate by paying money. You can get a car in lottery or in dowry.....

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Invitation to a Life Coaching Session to develop Emotional Intelligence ...

You are invited to
Sunday Life Coaching Session over Duo to develop Emotional Intelligence (EQ),
Leadership Skills, effective communication skills and Professional Selling
Strategies.Overcome anger, anxiety, stress and depression for emotional fitness
and improve emotional bank balance to face difficult situation &
circumstances.

Please message me if
you are interested to participate, its free to participate. You should have Duo
app in your mobile phone. Let’s meet. Thank you

We are all suffering from psychosomatic illness

We are all suffering from psychosomatic illness

Psycho mean 'mind' and 'soma' means 'body'. The illness you are facing now mostly came from mind due to suppressed emotions such as anxiety, fear, conflict,
resentment and tension. Research shows that chronic emotional tension causes
symptoms such as headache, arthritis, hypertension including cancer. The other
disorders are dyspepsia, colitis, ulcers and insomnia.

Doctors treat the symptom, not the cause. The main cause of our illness is when our immune system goes down. Our immune system goes down for two main factors. They are lack of nutrient and emotional imbalance. The people who are working in the corporate are having enough money to feed themselves. Therefore nutrient is not the main cause of illness but the emotions.

When we don't accept the present- regrets, anxieties, worries keep replaying
unpleasant scenarios in our minds which create neuromuscular tensions. Nearly
all of us carry some degree of chronic tension, which rises and falls in the
course of everyday life. Unexpressed emotion leads us to physical stiffness and
fatigue resulting in headaches, neck aches, sore lower back, chronic fatigue,
muscle ache, back pain and reduces flexibility.

In the corporate world it is as if the language is invented to deceive someone. I can cheat the whole world but not self. The body reacts to my inner voice, conscience only. We say something outside but inner voice speaks something different. Whenever we are working against our emotion or inner conscience to gain something in physical level, we start forming knots in our body. But we are not able to recognise as our mind is diverted outward.

As our mind is diverted outward, we have lost the ability to sense the reaction happening within us each and every moment. We only recognise it when it comes out in the form of disease or pain.

What is the main cause of illness or disease?

The main cause of our illness or disease is due to weakening of our immune system. Our immune system goes down for two main factors. One, if we don’t have the right amount of nutrients in the body like vitamins, protein, fat etc., and the other factor is drainage of emotional bank balance.

The people who are working in the corporate sector are having enough money to feed themselves. Therefore nutrients are not the main cause of disease but the emotions.

Immune system is the resistance power to fight disease. To understand about immune system, let’s assume that one of your colleagues is suffering from chicken pox and you all went to see him. Will all get affected with chicken pox? May be one or two persons! Why not all of you? Others have stronger immune system.

Be your own ventilator, to fight Coronavirus attack

Be your own ventilator, to fight Coronavirus attack in 21
days

One of the most important weapons
to fight the invisible enemy is ventilators. Ventilators are currently
essential for critically ill COVID-19 patients. When the virus enters the lower
respiratory tract, it has the ability to damage alveoli—air-filled sacs in the lungs that introduce oxygen to the
bloodstream. Fluid begins to fill the alveoli instead of air, depriving oxygen
supply to all parts of the body. A ventilator becomes the best option to
quickly and effectively get oxygen back into the body while the lungs attempt
to heal.

Happiness is state of mind

 On the basis of thoughts our body reacts. Our body is the medium of expression. Happiness is within us but we keep looking outside for happiness i.e., outside our body. Our body and mind are two different entities, but most of us are unaware of that and we start to identify ourselves with our conditioned mind. We are living an unconscious life. I am not going to give you anything new in our training program. I will make you aware of what you've got within yourself. Fire of knowledge i.e. awareness can take away your suffering.

Anyone or everyone can be happy and live in peace, if he or she is living in a conscious state of living at present. But most of us are living in an unconscious state of living identified with our past conditioned mind i.e. ego.

Why I support Citizenship Amendment Act (CAA)? If get Citizenship, they ...

My parents came from Bangladesh in 1970. Our house
was burnt as we didn’t get converted to Islam. We escaped to India to save our
lives and left land, properties behind. Become refugees in India. We spend
several years on govt land beside railway tracks. Indira’s Congress Government
gave us citizenship. Therefore our parents are die hard supporter of congress.
CPI(M) in West Bengal could realize that Hindus from Bangladesh will not vote
for them. They started giving voter ID and Ration Card to Muslims from
Bangladesh. In this way CPI(M) ruled West Bengal for 3 decades. That time Miss
Mamta Banerjee was in congress and could realise that. She even raised the
issue in parliament and asked for a NRC in West Bengal. But congress feared
that they will lose Muslims votes in other states and didn’t implement. She
left congress and formed TMC (Trinomul Congress). She started implementing the
same policy of CPI(M), giving ration card and voter cards to Muslims from
Bangladesh. If you are non-Muslim, you don’t get ration card easily in West Bengal.

As we got citizenship of India, We could get
admission in Sainik School and brother is currently serving Indian army as Brigadier.
CAA is to give citizenship all except Muslims from Bangladesh. Bangladesh already
declared as Islam country. If you are a Christian, Boudh or Hindu, you are
always harassed by converted Muslims. All Muslims in Bangladesh are converted
from Hindus. If non-Muslims came from Bangladesh get Indian Citizenship, they
will be able to live in peace in our country.

देश के सभी मुसलमान भाई-बहनों से अपील है कि अफवाहों से बचें और सच जानें.

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Money can buy comfort, but not happiness.

Money can buy comfort, not happiness. Please share your feedback. Let’s take some example to understand this.

You bought a comfortable chair. You are sitting on the comfortable and someone commented, ‘who is that idiot sitting on the chair’. Where will be your happiness?
Let’s image imagine you bought an expensive comfortable car but you have not invested time to master the art of driving and someone commented, ‘who is that idiot driving?
Similarly you have invested money to arrange a public meeting. Made a comfortable sitting arrangement and a large crowd came to listen to you. But you have not invested time on self to master the art of Public Speaking. Audience didn’t feel comfortable and commented, ‘what an idiot speaker?’ Will you happy?
Happiness is state of mind. On the basis of thoughts our body reacts. Our body is the medium of expression. Happiness is within us but we keep looking outside for happiness i.e., outside our body.